It’s no secret I’m scared of thunderstorms and cats. I’m also scared of falling in love. Been there done that and when I love, I love hard! I started reflecting on the fact that it’s been six years since my divorce and I am a changed woman. I have strength that I didn’t know existed. … More I’m Scared
Here’s the follow up to my plus one dilemma. I decided to attend the wedding in Pennsylvania solo and I am so glad that I did. First of all I love weddings and I always cry when I attend a wedding. I had the chance to see two special friends get married and I cried … More The Wedding Blog
I can go to a function not know anyone and walk out with three new friends. Even when I go to events alone trying to enjoy “me” time, I still manage to find myself in the middle of a conversation with complete strangers. I’m so excited to go to a wedding of a dear friend … More Project Plus 1
Dating after divorce is difficult, dating period can be difficult. Dating for a special needs parent has a few more challenges. I don’t have time to waste so if you’re not jumping on the autism train with us than “Bye Felecia!” Finding the time and energy to date is hard for me and don’t forget … More My Companion
Diamonds sparkle but you can never find a penny when you need one. At least that is the case for me. We all need reminders. We set them on our phone. We use post it notes and write a to do list that never ends. There are times when you need reminders of what you … More Are You A Diamond Or A Penny?
How could I dread February 14th? I was born on Valentine’s Day way back in 1972. Yes, I will be 46 years old in ten days. The last five years taught me that love is still possible. Please don’t hate on my birthday. Better known to me as the day of love. The roses, candy … More Valentines, Galentines, Novalentines?
Lately I have been trying to figure out what label works best for me. Then I realized labels aren’t really necessary. When I say that I am a single mother. People will often say do your children see their fathers. I am thinking why is she making it plural? I only have one baby daddy. … More Single Mom or Divorced Mom
Before you get all excited. This blog isn’t about President Trump, the NFL, the anthem, police brutality or black lives matter. Race is often the elephant in the room. I know some situations may be difficult. I am sure we have all been in situations that were uncomfortable. We have to have a dialogue about … More Race, The Elephant In The Room
A complete stranger would be nice to me. I would sleep for nine hours straight. I would leave Sydney and Harrison at home while I went for a walk. God would place amazing people that “get” autism in my life People would read my blog. I would share some of the most painful stories with … More I Never Would Have Thought…..
If I write it, they will read it. At least that is what has happened in the past year. I never got blogger’s burnout. I never had writer’s block yet. Maybe because Copher’s Community has so much excitement going on each day of the week. Well, the time has to come for us to say … More If I Write It…