I had put it off long enough.  It was time to clean house. It wouldn’t be pretty but it had to be done.  What will people say? Am I making the right decisions? I am not talking about cleaning out my basement, the garage or the box still marked Michigan that stares at me everyday. … More Time To Clean House

Have you ever heard That Black Doesn’t Crack? I heard this expression many times growing up and I had no idea what it meant. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized what people were referring to.  Darker skin has more melanin than lighter skin.  It is produced by the body to protect it  … More They Say “Black Doesn’t Crack”

Today is Spread The Word To End The Word.  For those that didn’t know, this is the day that we sign the pledge to not use the word retarded.  Instead we choose to spread awareness, respect and acceptance. The R word hurts. It is offensive and derogatory. People with disabilities should be treated with dignity, … More The “N Word” and The “R Word”

Have you ever had those days when you cry for no reason at all?  What brings on your tears? A song or a memory from the past?  Or is it when  you think about a loved one, a relationship, your children or a joyful event? I think that there are times when you need to … More One Last Cry

A parent will protect their children and make them a priority.  A parent will turn into a fierce warrior if their children are in danger. As a single parent I have double duty. I admit I have been a helicopter mom, and maybe I still am at times.   There are things that I would … More The Helicopter Parent

Harrison and I had a chance to spend a lot of quality time together.  This was something that we didn’t always have the pleasure of doing.  When Sydney was diagnosed she required my undivided attention.  She still requires my attention now but earlier it was different.  I couldn’t leave her in a room by herself … More Mom, It’s Time You Get A Boyfriend

Disclaimer:  Please keep in mind I can’t make this stuff up.  These events happened in real time. Today, February 25, 2017 from 3:00-4:00 am.(insert music from 24)  Don’t try this at home! “Mommy,  I need help.  I’m stuck. We need a shortcut.  Where are the scissors?  Can you fix my hair? Mommy, I am in … More Mommy, I’m Stuck!

  If you have been following A Woman’s Work you know that Sydney doesn’t need much sleep.  She is up everyday at 3:00 am.  And no, she doesn’t go back to bed.  Which means I am up every morning at 3:00 am.  When she wakes up now.  She comes to my room and usually asks … More Yes, That’s A Toaster In My Bathroom

Sydney walked into cheer practice with her theme song “I’m Coming Out” playing.  She was ready.  She did a great job following directions and participating.  I think she really enjoys working with the girls.  Her last practice is this Saturday. After cheer practice we went out to eat then went home.  I promised her she … More Australia Here We Come

  Lola Mae is my mommy.  She would be mad if she knew I used Lola Mae on my blog. Today is my mommy’s birthday.  Yes, I still call her mommy.  She has taught me many things.  But I learned more by watching her.  Watching her handle situations and circumstances with grace.  I saw her … More Lola Mae Butler