It’s no secret I’m scared of thunderstorms and cats. I’m also scared of falling in love. Been there done that and when I love, I love hard! I started reflecting on the fact that it’s been six years since my divorce and I am a changed woman. I have strength that I didn’t know existed. … More I’m Scared
I am not sure if it is my heart monitor or my short natural hairstyle, but this sista was asked out on five dates this week. Holla!!!! Before you get all excited two of those invites don’t count. One little boy was thirty years old! Bless his little heart. Another gentlemen was a little “suspect”, … More Who Needs Match.com When You’re Wearing A Heart Monitor
Here’s the follow up to my plus one dilemma. I decided to attend the wedding in Pennsylvania solo and I am so glad that I did. First of all I love weddings and I always cry when I attend a wedding. I had the chance to see two special friends get married and I cried … More The Wedding Blog
Is it really true what they say? Men and women can be just friends. I was a firm believer that the answer was no. It might have been because of the experiences that I had with men in my past. If my husband had a friend that was a woman. I wanted to know who … More Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
Women are emotional human beings. Some of us our a little over the top with our emotions and that is okay. Crying is not a sign of weakness. I believe that when you cry you release tension, pain, anger and memories. So why do you we teach our boys not to cry? When boys cry … More You Can’t Handle The Truth
When I was younger I remember singing Respect by Aretha Franklin in front of a mirror, with a hairbrush as my microphone. I loved that song. I had no clue about what the lyrics meant. Now, when I sing that song. I realize her lyrics are fierce! I was always taught to respect my … More Respect
It only took seven years. That is not such a long time. Well, now that I think about it seven years seemed liked forever. I’m sure you are wondering what took so long. Well, it took seven years for my kids and I to finally enjoy our summer vacation. For the past seven years. Summer … More Seven Long Years
My daddy named me. I always loved my name. It wasn’t a popular name but I didn’t mind. Whenever I heard someone else with the name Brooke. I was always curious to see if they spelled it with an “e” at the end. When I married Robert I accepted the name Copher. When we had … More It’s All In The Name
How would you complete that sentence starter? Would you finish it with a scripture reference on love? Or would you speak from your heart. I’ve been thinking about the definition of love lately. There are so many definitions of love that come to my mind. First, I think about the love that God has for … More Love is …..
Being 45 is fabulous. Being 45 and trying to date can be a hot mess. I think that I am a pretty good judge if someone is trying to flirt with me or not. Ladies sometimes a brother just needs a little help and he’s not trying to flirt with you. Know the difference. I … More Can You Help A Brother Out?